A whole YEAR has gone by

And YES it's actually a whole YEAR since all this kicked off for me , my divorce and all, got under way this time last year with the discovery of the infidelities a YEAR ago.
Jo:- You've come a long way Taster x
Thanks Jo, it felt a whole lot like climbing a huge sand hill with a huge rucksack on my back. Divorce is so weird cos the time you most need your 'other half' to support you- at your greatest need- they are the very ones wot done you in, see.
And your children can't take your side cos they are split and feel so torn and in such pain themselves.
My own siblings were completely AWOL in terms of supporting me.
I really found out who my friends were/are. And it was mainly you lot on this 'ere. *sob*
A big thank you to my internet cyber buddies ..you know who you are.xxx

No further contact

''If you don’t like this then you will need to take up the matter with your solicitor to contact me as I wish to have no further contact on this matter, or any other''.
Reply:-
dear sperm donor

is that what your sons are worth? less than a month's wages? damn right I'm taking it to the solicitor, you stole thousands from your wife and so I don't hold out much hope that you won't steal from your sons.

the boys have their own bank accounts already. please put a cheque in the post for each and we can discuss the remainder of the money they deserve from you, their abandoning parent, through the solicitors.

you are such a dkhead, and I am so glad I never have to see you again


taster'

Shockers and such

Today I got the consent application , which has a couple of shockers: Why has he said that? And should I sign, given these shockers??
In case anyone wonders:- what is a 'consent application'?
In order to get decree absolute the court has to know what the financial situation is and who has custody of kids and such, and he has to come clean in it and agree to pay me things ( maintenance of children in fact), and presumably tell the truth?? Anyway my solicitor sent it to me by post so has seen it, but said in the cover letter ring me if you have any questions, ..errrr yes! So I have been trying to ring it all day but no luck getting him as yet.
What a cheeky bugger he is.As my mates said, when they heard of it.

I know, he really is breath taking. This weekend when I am going to Wolverhampton Uni with eldest ( if I'm well enough) he *could* have come down another weekend ( eg last weekend) so that son 2 could have come with us, seen his grandparents, had a look round Uni; but because HE has said he will come this weekend and won't change, then son 2 has been emotionally bamboozled.
I TOLD him (ex) about the Uni open day in an email with dates, but he ignored it.
As he lives in M now he will be coming past the junction 10 and could easily have met us there, taken son 2 off for a bit, whatever, saved himself the drive down? But no. Or EVEN shown an interest in son 1 and his Uni choice? Nooooo.