Shockers and such

Today I got the consent application , which has a couple of shockers: Why has he said that? And should I sign, given these shockers??
In case anyone wonders:- what is a 'consent application'?
In order to get decree absolute the court has to know what the financial situation is and who has custody of kids and such, and he has to come clean in it and agree to pay me things ( maintenance of children in fact), and presumably tell the truth?? Anyway my solicitor sent it to me by post so has seen it, but said in the cover letter ring me if you have any questions, ..errrr yes! So I have been trying to ring it all day but no luck getting him as yet.
What a cheeky bugger he is.As my mates said, when they heard of it.

I know, he really is breath taking. This weekend when I am going to Wolverhampton Uni with eldest ( if I'm well enough) he *could* have come down another weekend ( eg last weekend) so that son 2 could have come with us, seen his grandparents, had a look round Uni; but because HE has said he will come this weekend and won't change, then son 2 has been emotionally bamboozled.
I TOLD him (ex) about the Uni open day in an email with dates, but he ignored it.
As he lives in M now he will be coming past the junction 10 and could easily have met us there, taken son 2 off for a bit, whatever, saved himself the drive down? But no. Or EVEN shown an interest in son 1 and his Uni choice? Nooooo.